1 thought on “Living in Jiangxi, her daughter found a Guangdong boyfriend. The other party only wanted to give 20,000 gifts. What should I do?”
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Cantonese (referring to the real Guangdong population group, that is, the ethnic group that uses Cantonese as the mother tongue, does not include Hakka, such as Hakka, such as Hakka, such as Hakka, such as the non -Cantonese group), is pure. For 20,000, if you ask for high color gifts, Cantonese will not compromise without eating this set, because the colorful gift for local girls in Guangdong is the price. Why is it so high in the province? Because marrying women in the minds of Cantonese is not to sell women, it has nothing to do with money, so if you want to marry a Guangdong man, you must follow the customs of Guangdong. It is absolutely impossible for high -quality gifts to be compromised.
This, hurry up, Jiangxi Cai Li is the highest in the country, and there is almost no place in this place in Guangdong. You emphasize your custom, people have the custom of others, if you can't pass the hurdle in your heart, whether your family has not received a high color gift or the man is forced to pay high gifts, it will launch a bomb for marriage. Essence Rather than letting go, don't harm each other.
The is more than 20,000 in Cantonese Cai Li, it is best not to marry, because the Cantonese people marry (wife) instead of buying relatives (wives). Marrying women are all money!
is really normal. The marriage concept of the Cantonese is worth learning from compatriots in other provinces. please remember! The female family is not selling women, but her daughter's new family is happy! The man should also act properly without ability.
I seeing this problem, I really feel too much. I just have two colleagues from Jiangxi. I have experienced a great insight in my life. Why is it? Cognition of wedding gifts.
The people who are born in Guangdong. The gifts of my marriage when I get married are more than 1W. Of course, I was married in 2005. At that time This number is not too much or less.
It before I heard that outside Guangdong Province, some places are very high. It takes tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands. In the eyes of ordinary people, I felt that these news was fake. Of course, of course, of course, of course, of course, of course, of course, of course Some characters of rich second generations or stars, I think these are true, because they do have money, they need face or something. Now think about it, I have seen less. At the time, the mobile phone network was not developed enough, and the news did not know so quickly.
It about my personal understanding, where I say wrong, please contain me. I think that in fact, our Hakka people attach great importance to their affection. Based on the love of both men and women, they are married and married, but they do not value the gifts, but they can pay attention to the marriage of both men and women. You have to walk around for a good family relationship.
If you are full of fat people, it takes hundreds of thousands of colorful gifts. In our opinion, it is selling daughters. Families who have no money for hundreds of thousands of gifts are carried on their debts. Think about the marriage after marriage. Can you be happy? How many years do men and women have to struggle to fight for debt after marriage? This is really a moment of scenery, and it will work hard for how many years of hard work. At the same time, the man must have grievances in his heart. If you are angry, you will be sent to life. If you think about it, you are exhausted.
Last year, my two Jiangxi colleagues. A man, a little money at home. His parents saved some money. When he booked a relative, he gave the woman's family 50,000. When he got married, he gave 188,000 when he got married. The two were added to 238,000. The banquet and wedding jewelry are calculated otherwise. [Cover your face] And my male colleague, a monthly salary of about 6,000 yuan, ask everyone, if it wasn't for his parents to save some money, can he get married?
The other female colleagues in Jiangxi, to be honest, the appearance is very average. I love my boyfriend in Jiangxi when I was in college. The boyfriend's house was poor. Parents were farming at home. The monthly salary of her boyfriend was about 5,000 yuan. Every time I talked about Jiangxi colorful gifts, I was always dodging, frowning, and a pressure on a pressure. The appearance of Shanda, although female colleagues said that we are not compared with rich people, but we can't let the natives of Jiangxi look down. My family only needs 188,000, which is all -inclusive. [Covering your face] The man did not say a word, I was listening to it, and I was surprised. The world really made me feel terrible. Jiangxi's colorful ceremony really made me terrifying. Where can the man's family go to borrow this money? Is it? The man's parents are farming at home. Children have 188,000 mouths. To be honest, 188,000, can marry very beautiful and good girls in our Hakka countryside. [Tear Ben] The key is that my female colleague gave it, and all of us feel that it is really not worth this money.
It the Jiangxi colorful gift incident in front of me, I won't let my son marry a girl in Jiangxi. My concept is still to marry the locals. Essence Of course, the most important thing is that the money is too expensive. To be honest, there is no need to pay this money. It makes yourself too tired. The quality of life in the future is too bad. Can you be happy after marriage?
above is my personal opinion of Jiangxi colorful gifts. Welcome everyone to comment, thank you!
The facts, our boss Guangzhou, his son talked about a girlfriend last year, and he was also from Jiangxi. Ask, I have no problem to buy a house and give you 200,000, but what do you give me back? The woman said that I came here, and his son said loudly in front of everyone, that is, you have nothing to bring except bringing a B over, right? The woman was so embarrassing, and then lost it. There is no money, and the daughter has to drink the Northwest Wind in the past, and it is not bad to give the two who have been married in the past. You think about it yourself. Essence Essence
The heart is not happy, just call your daughter to share it! Cantonese rarely say color gifts. If you want high -priced gift money, you can't do it in Guangdong.
The break up decisively! Marrying a woman to go to Guangdong! The wedding gifts in Guangdong are very pitiful, and they can almost ignore it.
The words of my heart, I have lived in Guangdong for more than 20 years. According to what I have seen and heard in life, there are really a lot of gifts in Guangdong. The Guangdong people were married and married, and they basically did not ask for Cai Li.
Meging in Guangdong, the gift is basically given by the man's house. I used to have a friend to marry a woman, and both men and women are Cantonese. Both of them have a decent job, and their family conditions are very good. The woman's family has four real estate in Shenzhen, and the man's family has three real estate in Shenzhen. Both parents are tens of millions of worth, and the son of the man's family is a convertible BMW. I think the two rich families get married at least twenty or 300,000. But when the marriage theory, the man's family gave my friend's house 19999 yuan. When I knew it, I almost shocked the chin. However, the woman's family bought a lot of marriage products, and there were more than 300,000 gold jewelry bought in Hong Kong alone.
. In other places, gold jewelry is generally purchased by the man's house, but in Guangdong, gold jewelry is a dowry, and is generally purchased by the woman's house. Girls in Guangdong usually lose money, so before your daughter prepares to marry Guangdong, you must first understand these. Otherwise, everyone will complain to each other and lay hidden dangers for future marriage.
The color ceremony in Jiangxi should be ranked at the forefront of the country, but Guangdong's wedding gifts are the least. Therefore, the regional concept is different, and the two are destined to be unable to come together. The huge gifts in many places have made many families marry for their children, and they make every effort to make their best to make up for their debts. Some rural families are even worse, and there is no place to borrow money to borrow money. Today's wedding gifts are almost a mountain that is almost pressed on parents and young people.
The people can't get married today, even if they can end, they can hurt bones. I really don't know how to think of such a high gift.
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I said a real example. I have a friend from Guangzhou. The family is rich. Having said), knowing a lot of money in his family, he will have 58W gifts when you speak. My friend and his father said that at most 3.8W. The woman said that the man's family was stingy and looked down on the woman's side. The man explained a lot of customs about Guangdong's colorful gifts, but the woman just did not listen, and in the end it was not formed. After a year, my friend was looking for a girl in a province, but the woman's family was very enlightened. The woman's parents are teachers, and they say that Cai Li follows your customs of Guangdong. 3.8W or 2.8W does not matter. As long as my daughter is happy to get married, after marriage, the man's father will buy a set for the woman's parents in the woman's hometown. The villa, later my friend's ex -girlfriend knew the regret of this, and sent the regret and unwilling dynamic and videos in the circle of friends and Douyin every day.
Cantonese (referring to the real Guangdong population group, that is, the ethnic group that uses Cantonese as the mother tongue, does not include Hakka, such as Hakka, such as Hakka, such as Hakka, such as the non -Cantonese group), is pure. For 20,000, if you ask for high color gifts, Cantonese will not compromise without eating this set, because the colorful gift for local girls in Guangdong is the price. Why is it so high in the province? Because marrying women in the minds of Cantonese is not to sell women, it has nothing to do with money, so if you want to marry a Guangdong man, you must follow the customs of Guangdong. It is absolutely impossible for high -quality gifts to be compromised.
This, hurry up, Jiangxi Cai Li is the highest in the country, and there is almost no place in this place in Guangdong. You emphasize your custom, people have the custom of others, if you can't pass the hurdle in your heart, whether your family has not received a high color gift or the man is forced to pay high gifts, it will launch a bomb for marriage. Essence Rather than letting go, don't harm each other.
The is more than 20,000 in Cantonese Cai Li, it is best not to marry, because the Cantonese people marry (wife) instead of buying relatives (wives). Marrying women are all money!
is really normal. The marriage concept of the Cantonese is worth learning from compatriots in other provinces. please remember! The female family is not selling women, but her daughter's new family is happy! The man should also act properly without ability.
I seeing this problem, I really feel too much. I just have two colleagues from Jiangxi. I have experienced a great insight in my life. Why is it? Cognition of wedding gifts.
The people who are born in Guangdong. The gifts of my marriage when I get married are more than 1W. Of course, I was married in 2005. At that time This number is not too much or less.
It before I heard that outside Guangdong Province, some places are very high. It takes tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands. In the eyes of ordinary people, I felt that these news was fake. Of course, of course, of course, of course, of course, of course, of course, of course Some characters of rich second generations or stars, I think these are true, because they do have money, they need face or something. Now think about it, I have seen less. At the time, the mobile phone network was not developed enough, and the news did not know so quickly.
It about my personal understanding, where I say wrong, please contain me. I think that in fact, our Hakka people attach great importance to their affection. Based on the love of both men and women, they are married and married, but they do not value the gifts, but they can pay attention to the marriage of both men and women. You have to walk around for a good family relationship.
If you are full of fat people, it takes hundreds of thousands of colorful gifts. In our opinion, it is selling daughters. Families who have no money for hundreds of thousands of gifts are carried on their debts. Think about the marriage after marriage. Can you be happy? How many years do men and women have to struggle to fight for debt after marriage? This is really a moment of scenery, and it will work hard for how many years of hard work. At the same time, the man must have grievances in his heart. If you are angry, you will be sent to life. If you think about it, you are exhausted.
Last year, my two Jiangxi colleagues. A man, a little money at home. His parents saved some money. When he booked a relative, he gave the woman's family 50,000. When he got married, he gave 188,000 when he got married. The two were added to 238,000. The banquet and wedding jewelry are calculated otherwise. [Cover your face] And my male colleague, a monthly salary of about 6,000 yuan, ask everyone, if it wasn't for his parents to save some money, can he get married?
The other female colleagues in Jiangxi, to be honest, the appearance is very average. I love my boyfriend in Jiangxi when I was in college. The boyfriend's house was poor. Parents were farming at home. The monthly salary of her boyfriend was about 5,000 yuan. Every time I talked about Jiangxi colorful gifts, I was always dodging, frowning, and a pressure on a pressure. The appearance of Shanda, although female colleagues said that we are not compared with rich people, but we can't let the natives of Jiangxi look down. My family only needs 188,000, which is all -inclusive. [Covering your face] The man did not say a word, I was listening to it, and I was surprised. The world really made me feel terrible. Jiangxi's colorful ceremony really made me terrifying. Where can the man's family go to borrow this money? Is it? The man's parents are farming at home. Children have 188,000 mouths. To be honest, 188,000, can marry very beautiful and good girls in our Hakka countryside. [Tear Ben] The key is that my female colleague gave it, and all of us feel that it is really not worth this money.
It the Jiangxi colorful gift incident in front of me, I won't let my son marry a girl in Jiangxi. My concept is still to marry the locals. Essence Of course, the most important thing is that the money is too expensive. To be honest, there is no need to pay this money. It makes yourself too tired. The quality of life in the future is too bad. Can you be happy after marriage?
above is my personal opinion of Jiangxi colorful gifts. Welcome everyone to comment, thank you!
The facts, our boss Guangzhou, his son talked about a girlfriend last year, and he was also from Jiangxi. Ask, I have no problem to buy a house and give you 200,000, but what do you give me back? The woman said that I came here, and his son said loudly in front of everyone, that is, you have nothing to bring except bringing a B over, right? The woman was so embarrassing, and then lost it. There is no money, and the daughter has to drink the Northwest Wind in the past, and it is not bad to give the two who have been married in the past. You think about it yourself. Essence Essence
The heart is not happy, just call your daughter to share it! Cantonese rarely say color gifts. If you want high -priced gift money, you can't do it in Guangdong.
The break up decisively! Marrying a woman to go to Guangdong! The wedding gifts in Guangdong are very pitiful, and they can almost ignore it.
The words of my heart, I have lived in Guangdong for more than 20 years. According to what I have seen and heard in life, there are really a lot of gifts in Guangdong. The Guangdong people were married and married, and they basically did not ask for Cai Li.
Meging in Guangdong, the gift is basically given by the man's house. I used to have a friend to marry a woman, and both men and women are Cantonese. Both of them have a decent job, and their family conditions are very good. The woman's family has four real estate in Shenzhen, and the man's family has three real estate in Shenzhen. Both parents are tens of millions of worth, and the son of the man's family is a convertible BMW. I think the two rich families get married at least twenty or 300,000. But when the marriage theory, the man's family gave my friend's house 19999 yuan. When I knew it, I almost shocked the chin. However, the woman's family bought a lot of marriage products, and there were more than 300,000 gold jewelry bought in Hong Kong alone.
. In other places, gold jewelry is generally purchased by the man's house, but in Guangdong, gold jewelry is a dowry, and is generally purchased by the woman's house. Girls in Guangdong usually lose money, so before your daughter prepares to marry Guangdong, you must first understand these. Otherwise, everyone will complain to each other and lay hidden dangers for future marriage.
The color ceremony in Jiangxi should be ranked at the forefront of the country, but Guangdong's wedding gifts are the least. Therefore, the regional concept is different, and the two are destined to be unable to come together. The huge gifts in many places have made many families marry for their children, and they make every effort to make their best to make up for their debts. Some rural families are even worse, and there is no place to borrow money to borrow money. Today's wedding gifts are almost a mountain that is almost pressed on parents and young people.
The people can't get married today, even if they can end, they can hurt bones. I really don't know how to think of such a high gift.
,
I said a real example. I have a friend from Guangzhou. The family is rich. Having said), knowing a lot of money in his family, he will have 58W gifts when you speak. My friend and his father said that at most 3.8W. The woman said that the man's family was stingy and looked down on the woman's side. The man explained a lot of customs about Guangdong's colorful gifts, but the woman just did not listen, and in the end it was not formed. After a year, my friend was looking for a girl in a province, but the woman's family was very enlightened. The woman's parents are teachers, and they say that Cai Li follows your customs of Guangdong. 3.8W or 2.8W does not matter. As long as my daughter is happy to get married, after marriage, the man's father will buy a set for the woman's parents in the woman's hometown. The villa, later my friend's ex -girlfriend knew the regret of this, and sent the regret and unwilling dynamic and videos in the circle of friends and Douyin every day.